Law of Detachment
Have you ever heard of the Law of Detachment? Well, I'm sure you have experienced it! Have you really liked someone and this guy/gal was all you could think about? When after all of your energy, he/she never really seemed to feel the same way about you. Then you finally got the hint, not to waste anymore time and let the idea of that great relationship go.....and then all of the sudden he/she starts seeking you out, wanting your attention and a relationship with you! Or you had a client that you just knew was going to move to the next level and you focused your energy on talking about what you thought this person would do and when.....and he did nothing. Have you ever had a similar experience? The Law of Detachment says that they way to acquire what you want is to let go of your attachment. By letting go, we are not letting go of our intention to manifest it. 
How Do We Apply It?Start with moving through your day with detached sense of being. This means that when problems arise, you don't "lose your cool" because you know that a solution will present itself.If you stand firm in your detachment, you won't feel that you have force it or push toward a solution, it will happen on it's own time. You in turn can stay open to possibilities with the trust that all is in perfect order. 1. Practice detached interactions. 2. Accept things don't always go as planned. 3. Be open to solutions instead of wallowing in the problem. The great thing about the Law of Detachment is that it works well with the Law of Attraction. In order for you to attract what you want, you must be detached to the outcome. What Happens If I'm Attached?When you are attached, you vibrate fear, doubt and need. You are attracting more fear, doubt and need, since we know the Law of Attraction says, "like attracts like." You are approaching your desire from a position of worry.What is worry? It is planning to fail. Your mind is creating all these failure scenarios. You think them over and over. It creates this negative downward spiral. When your attached to an outcome you are giving away your personal power. When you allow things outside yourself to bring you satisfaction or joy, you are giving over control to something or someone else. You are then powerless. In the above examples, with a relationship you are riding the emotional roller coaster, sometimes up and sometimes down. When they are paying attention to you, the coaster is headed up, we feel great, all is well in the world.....and headed on the downside when they are not paying attention to you, and we feel sad, frustrated and start to worry. Or in the case of the client, we feel great the client is moving forward and feel uncertain of ourselves when the client doesn't. We can't allow ourselves to be emotionally attached!
So, How Do I Become Detached?Have you heard the saying, "Let go and let God"? This is the absolute trust and faith that you have that God, the universe, the source provides all things. You are trusting that there is enough, that you deserve all great things coming to you.Law of Detachment means that whatever you seek has no power over you, you are in control. So many people think to get something that they must hang on for dear life....but the truth is, it is the letting go, that brings it to you. Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go."
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